Group swinging refers to an orgy situation, notwithstanding that this term is not very popular with swingers, many swingers find that this form of swinging lifestyle simultaneously satisfies their desires for exhibitionism and voyeurism.It is also common practice that bisexual women wish to enjoy themselves together whilst their men watch. This satisfies the individuals desire to watch and be watched, as well as that of watching their spouse with another person. Open swinging refers to couples swinging in the same room and possibly bed.Closed swinging (the probable origin for the term 'wife swapping') is a common form of swinging in which partners swing with one or more close couples.Soft swinging is possibly the most common form of swinging relationships between couples, and refers to watching, being watched, mutual masturbation, petting and possibly oral sex but without changing partners for intercourse.The question arises - Does the Swinging Lifestyle the same recognition as other minority sexualities?Īs found in many types of sexuality, swinging assumes a few common forms or variants:
This form of sexual identity is clearly outside the norm, and pushes the envelope as to what most 'normal' couples would consider acceptable. "To swingers, physical acts of sexual pleasure with someone you respect, just for pleasure, and making love to one's lifetime partner are two distinctly different things". Sex is therefore a very small part of the Swinging relationship. These are further necessitated when it comes to acting out such fantasies within pre- agreed boundaries. The core of a solid swinging relationship is the openness, communication and trust that are required from both partners to be able to discuss matters such as fantasies and desires openly.
Swingers are couples (both straight and gay) who have made a conscious, consensual decision to partake in a committed relationship that allows the exploration of recreational sex with other couples and individuals.
Swingers take an alternate route the above, however it is one that can engender more trust and honesty than traditional monogamous relationships do. The traditional modality of a relationship entails the promise to be faithful and sexually exclusive to a single partner for the duration of the relationship. To the majority of people brought up in western societies in the last century, a couple engaged in a relationship that does not espouse monogamy is an oxymoron at best, hypocritical at worst.
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